WHAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT WOMEN !!
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CHAPTER
1: INSIDE A GIRL'S MIND.
Have
you ever been itching to get inside a girl’s mind and know exactly what she’s
thinking? Well, mind-reading isn’t something eliot is going to teach you.
(Sorry if you were expecting that). But as you’re about to discover, most girls
are driven by the same basic motives. Once you know what they are, you’ll be
able to connect with just about any girl. Now, in case you haven’t noticed,
girls are different than us. Sometimes it’s like they’re from an entire other
planet, and they speak a different language. But understanding girls isn’t
really that difficult; it’s just different. It basically requires you to
understand the two basic ways in which girls think differently than us.
1.HOW
GIRLS GET THEIR WAY
Girls
don’t influence others the same way boys/men do. They can’t. They’re weaker
than we are physically, and for this reason, many boys/men (and some girls)
assume this means that they can easily overpower a girl through intimidation.
This means that if a girl wants to get her way, she has to resort to other
methods. The most common of these is through the manipulation of people’s
emotions (i.e., drama). For example, when a girl gets mad at you when you don’t
do what she wants, claiming that you “made her mad,” did you really make her
mad? No. She’s a grown girl, and she’s in control of your emotions. But
boys/men are real suckers for drama because they believe that they are
responsible for a girl’s emotional states. They do things (or don’t do them) to
avoid “making” a girl feel sad, upset, jealous, angry, pouty, insecure, stupid
or some other dramatic emotional state. It’s really kind of funny when you
think about it. A girl can literally overpower a man using drama, and who can
blame them? It’s been their only option for a very long time. They’re not only
physically weaker, but for thousands of years, they’ve been deprived of the
positions of authority and forced to resort to more unconventional ways of
asserting power over boys/men. And as I’m sure you’ve noticed, they’ve gotten
this down to a science. Now let’s clear something up before we continue:
There’s really nothing wrong with manipulating people or with using drama to do
it. We ALL use manipulation to get what we want. Some people call it
inspiration or influence. But in any case, we’re never forcing the person to
respond to us.
In
fact, boys/men are more likely to use intimidation to get what they want, which
is much more forceful than drama. So there’s no point in hating girls for using
drama to get what they want. Instead, we’re going to use this knowledge to
increase your options for getting better results in your interactions with
girls. And that begins with understanding this: You’re never going to find a
girl who is “drama-free”; there’s no such thing. Girls are addicted to drama
because it’s a means of getting what they want. What you have to do as a man is
learn how to deal with drama and keep girls from using it to overpower you.
Believe it or not, that’s exactly what girls really want from a man.
……to
be continued….
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