HOW TO DEFEAT YOUR ENEMIES WITH KINDNESS.
Hey
there, welcome to my blog. I hope you are doing well. So today, I want to share
a few tips on how you can defeat your enemies peacefully and with kindness. I for
one don’t have very many enemies….at least not that I know of but enemies will
always be enemies. And it won’t be wrong in saying that everyone has one.
It doesn’t matter if you are entirely innocent of the matter or not, you must
learn to defeat and vanquish the pesky enemies as it is an essential part of
moving forward with your life and getting on with it.
You will begin to understand your enemy with time
and if you really want to get rid of them, it is essential and very important to defend yourself first.
Do keep that in mind. And if you want to defeat
your enemies, I have shared a few tips to tell you how to defeat your enemies
with kindness.
HOW TO DEFEAT YOUR ENEMIES: BEST TIPS
1. TRY TO
UNDERSTAND YOUR ENEMY:
All of your enemies have not been created the same.
Depending on the kind of enemy you have, you have to deal with them
accordingly.
There are several kinds of enemies that fall under
this category. The first one is nemeses. These people are usually found at
school and work when you have been paired with like-minded people.
Next comes are frenemies or friends you don’t
really like. Third ones are tough enemies, the ones who make your life
difficult and menace.
2. OBSERVE
THEM CAREFULLY:
Now that you have understood your enemy and know
where they come from, it is time for you to observe their behaviour and
understand carefully.
See what do they associate themselves with and what
are their interests. What is it that your enemy wants?
Learn what motivates them and what they are
struggling with at this point.
Understanding them and their personality if you
didn’t know could really help you step up your game and kill them with kindness
in the near future.
3. AVOID
YOUR ENEMY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE:
Your next step is to avoid the enemy as much as
possible.
This is literally the best way to defeat them and
get them out of your system and life completely.
You have to disarm them by not giving them the
opportunity to offend or annoy you. If you have been struggling with a bully,
remember to use your observational skills and spend time doing other things.
You shouldn’t give them the chance to antagonize
you. If you have to see your enemy regularly, like maybe at school or work, you
have to focus on your interactions with them.
The best way to avoid them is by avoid listening to
what they have to tell. Spout them off at work and school so you don’t have to
worry about their opinions.
4. TURN
COLD TOWARDS THEM:
Another point that works really well is when you
become cold towards these people. This could really be a smart, powerful and effective tool when
it comes to fighting off enemies.
There are bullies, nemesis and frenemies who always
want attention from you. They are in search of an audience to pick on you and
put you down.
The cold shoulder is an effective and powerful tool
when it comes to fighting enemies. So when your enemy comes near you, pretend
like nothing has happened. Don’t make any sounds or give them any reason.
Even if the enemy is standing two feet away and is
calling out to you, ignore them completely and speak to a friend as if nothing
happened.
5. LEARN TO
DEFEND YOURSELF:
Finally, you should learn how to defend yourself.
Yes, there will be times when you have to come face to face with the person who
has been trying to make your life miserable.
Don’t back down then. Open up and be vocal about
your opinion.
The more you keep quiet and hide, the more people
will want to make an ass out of you.
So it is a suggestion by us that you start working
on yourself and defend yourself as much as you can because that would really
help you.
6. FIND OUT
THEIR WEAKNESS:
A third thing you must remember to do is find out
their weakness. See what pulls them down.
Knowing about their weakness could actually make
you a better player. So make sure you are observing them carefully. All of this
matters a lot when you are trying to defeat an enemy.
7. MOVE ON:
Yes! You should move on. Don’t be so obsessed with
them and worry about their opinions. Do know that it is all a matter of time
and that you shouldn’t be feeling so bad and difficult about it all the time.
The faster you move on the better it is for you. It
will help you worry less and get on with your life than keep stressing about
what that one enemy has to tell.
So take your time and get over that feeling. It
isn’t all that healthy anyway.
OTHER POINTS AND TIPS YOU SHOULD
REMEMBER:
1. TRY TO
BUILD YOUR CHARACTER EVEN MORE:
First and foremost, if you really want to defeat
your enemy without being harsh or rude to them, you have work on
your character and try to build it even more.
Always remember that your character is your best
and true weapon that will close the evil tongue of your enemies. It is always
your character that will protect and cover your reputation so always be mindful
of that.
Plus when you work on yourself and see signs of
improvement, only then you begin to feel confident about your character.
2. BE A
LITTLE MORE OPEN MINDED:
Second, remember to give people enough space and
time so that you can understand and analyze what they are trying to tell.
If you think there is literally no sense in what
they are saying, you should go ahead and ask them a question if they think you
are a critic or not.
Being open minded is very important for those who
really want to defeat their enemies without getting all harsh and vindictive.
If you want to get rid of them and emerge successfully, this is what you need
to do.
3. KNOW HOW
TO MANAGE YOUR TEMPER AND TONGUE:
Third, you should know how to manage
your temper and tongue. Be silent and watch them very
carefully.
Always remember that there is great power in
silence and you can make your opponent feel unpleasant, stressed, uncomfortable
and embarrassed at ease. All you have to do in these cases is use the right
technique and that’s it.
Keeping a check on your temper really matters a lot
these days. You have to be able to control yourself so that you can deal with
your enemies in a better way.
The minute you give into emotions, the more prone
you will be to losing. So don’t let that happen at all.
4. KEEP
YOUR EYES AND EARS CLOSED:
Another important point you must remember is to
keep your ears and eyes closed.
Do you understand what we mean by that?
Don’t listen to any negative and toxic stuff people
are saying about. They have probably been started by your enemy that you are so
badly trying to get rid of.
If you don’t receive his words, you could fly back
and wound that person. And if you receive those, they will fly forward and end
up hurting you and that is something we bet you want to avoid.
5. SHOW
YOUR KINDNESS:
Next, you should remember to be kind to them. I
have always heard that the best way to get rid of an enemy or someone who
detests you is by being kind to them.
And the best way to work that out is by showing
some sort of kindness to them. Be nice. Trust me when we say this, it doesn’t
hurt.
Plus when you are kind, people will begin to think
of you as a good person. So be alert and be nice to everyone including your
haters.
6. ALWAYS
BE HUMBLE:
And yes! Don’t ever forget to be humble. I have
always learned that wisdom and knowledge cannot be controlled and that when you
are able to others, it will always be the best side of you.
Plus it is definitely one of the best methods you
can try in order to get rid of all the enemies you have in your life.
People who have done this before have only spoken
about its benefits.
7. DON’T
EVER CRITICIZE THEM:
Criticizing is one of the worst things you could
ever do while trying to get rid of an enemy or try to defeat then.
It will acknowledge you and make you look like an
inferior person. You always have to bear and keep in mind that a word from the
tongue is far more hurting than the sword can ever inflict.
The latter will only affect the body but the former
will leave your spirit scarred for life. Always know that it is important to be
patient and that you should deal with people with more logic and be extremely
careful when it comes to dealing with your emotions.
8. Pray to
God and trust them:
Finally, you should pray to God and trust him.
After all, he is literally all you have in situations like these. But neither
does that mean you cannot do the above.
You have to follow the points we have enlisted above
and then put the rest in God. Your enemy will be defeated surely and you will
be free from them for life.
Just be a little patient and look up to God
in times of trouble.
HOW TO FORGIVE YOUR ENEMIES?
Finally, in this section we are going to teach you
about forgiving your enemies and how you can move on from them!
1. CONNECT
WITH OTHERS:
The best answer for ‘how to beat your enemy‘
and ‘how to move on
from your situation‘ is by connecting with others.
If you haven’t met your friends in a while or spent
time with them, make sure to do it. It will definitely help you feel better.
Connecting with others is one of the best and most
wonderful ways to forgive an enemy, especially if it is someone who has really
hurt you or caused a lot of trouble.
2. KNOW
WHERE YOU HAD GONE:
Secondly, do know that it takes two hands to clap
and that you must have done something wrong somewhere and that you can
definitely find a few places where it was your fault.
Take your time to think about this and keep pushing
yourself. In that way, you will be able to move on much faster and be able to
get over this painful situation.
In short, it will really help you forgive that
person and get over the situation as fast as possible.
3. KEEP
AWAY ALL NEGATIVE FEELINGS:
Finally, remember to keep away
all negative feelings. You must know that somewhere you were
responsible to make that person angry and hate you.
Just wish that person well and don’t let it stop
you from moving on from forgiveness. From insecurities and fear, you should
communicate with others and understand where your fault is.
Keeping away negative feelings is a must when you
are trying to forgive someone and move on. So do keep that in mind.
CONCLUSION:
This brings the post to an end. Always remember
that to defeat your enemies the right way, you have to use the right methods.
In this post I have discussed all of them and if you do make a point to follow
each and everyone that is mentioned, you are bound to get good results.
On that note, good luck and make sure to leave your
comments regarding the post. Give me some feedback as well. I would love to
hear from you. If there are a few questions you have in mind, you may let me
know them as well. I will try to clarify your doubt.
OKELLO ELIOT OTWAO
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